It was just a song after all, but it had meaning to me. It was as though a gift I treasured was snatched away and given to another. There are millions of love songs in this world. Why did he have to give her that song? What he did was a pure act of sadism.
Most of my past lovers have remained friends. Good friends, in fact, both in SL and irl, because they truly care about my well-being. He won't be. Because he doesn't.
I have a tab in my Picks titled "Leave me be...". I added a new paragraph at the end of it.
... if you think SL is a game, because it isn't to me and my heart is not a plaything.
... if you don't want drama, because drama arises from strong emotions and, when I love, there *are* strong emotions.
... if all you see is the beauty of my avatar, because my avatar is merely a product of my creativity. Would you claim you loved me if you fell in love with a piece of furniture I created?
... if I have to fight for your affections, because love should be a willing coming-together of two souls, not a chasing-after. If I have to fight for you, you're not worth fighting for.
My condolences to the bride.